You Are Not Responsible for Other People’s Stuff
To break the cycle of codependency, you’ve got to stand your ground on this truth: other people’s stuff is not your stuff! When someone you care about, especially a love interest you’re obsessed with, has …
Self-Care Is Other Care
Self-care is other care. Putting yourself first is the best thing you can do to help others, including the person you’re dating. Wait you say, isn’t that just selfishness? It certainly seems to run counter …
The Hole in Your Soul and How to Fix It
What drives us to romantic relationships for love and validation? There’s a hole in our souls. And we’re trying to fill it. The hole is a spiritual and psychological wound. Somewhere, somehow, we learned to …
When It Comes To Relationships, 50-50 Does Not Equal 100%
If you’re looking for the perfect partner, the one who will be your soulmate, better half, or missing piece, give up now. Stop looking. There is no one who will complete you, it’s all a …
What’s at the Root of Romantic Relationship Obsession?
If you are overly focused on romantic relationships, perhaps to the point of obsession, look to the root of the problem: you may be suffering from codependency. What is codependency? It’s got a formal definition, …